Not only are our members relationship-minded, they're also diverse interesting people. In fact, as long as you're serious about looking for love, you're welcome on our site. That means the San Francisco singles who use EliteSingles have a wide variety of backgrounds and future relationship dreams - and one of them might just be perfect for you. Want a meaningful match? Discover how to meet gay singles , lesbian singles , Filipino singles , and Vietnamese singles on our site.
Of course one of the best things about meeting someone new is that it gives you a great excuse to explore all the colorful eateries, eclectic bars and striking scenery that make this corner of California so wonderful. Want more local dating tips? Find even more romantic things to do in San Francisco , or take a romantic weekend trip with our tips for Los Angeles dating and San Diego dating. Meeting for a drink is a classic date night pick for a reason and San Francisco singles are spoiled for choice.
If you prefer your whisky to be dragon-free then you may want to try Rickhouse , a FiDi bar that specializes in fine single malts and local beer. The stunning wooden interiors and excellent drinks menu make this a perfect place to take someone special — but, on the nights they host live bluegrass bands, come early to get a jump on the crowds. For a casual first date, you can't beat coffee.
Try the always lovely Cafe du Soliel , a pretty French cafe in Lower Height that offers fresh, homemade food, tasty coffee, and sunny outdoor tables. If dinner's on the menu, head to Fort Mason, where Greens Restaurant serves up one of SF's best waterfront views they have to be seen to be believed! Yes, it's veggie only — but it's also so good that even the most die-hard carnivores will be impressed.
For a more alternative date, try The Ice Cream Bar , a picturesque Cole Valley soda shop with swoon-worthy art deco decor. Sharing a malt with your sweetie is back in style! Those on the San Francisco dating scene never have an excuse to be stuck for date ideas, at least not if they decide to embrace their inner tourist. For a more intimate SF date that is more romantic than cheesy, try renting a paddleboat from Stow Lake Boathouse and spend an hour or two paddling around the lake with your date.
Ok, it's a little cheesy, but it's also a great place to sit and chat while discovering pretty stone bridges and stunning waterfalls. EliteSingles logo San Francisco. Please select your gender and search gender. Please use a valid email address. Please accept the terms below.
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Why is it worth staying positive? You need to be intuitive. Spend less time at those spots if you are looking to increase your chances of finding someone of quality and true connection. There are idiots and jerks in San Francisco. But there are idiots and jerks everywhere. And girls can be jerks too….
The optimistic side of dating in San Francisco: So many different kinds of people in this city. So many walks of life when you really start exploring other neighborhoods.
Just to get them out of the way. They will tell you. They will make it known. You have your answer. There are men who do- move on and look for those guys! Will there be moments when we realize that guy we just met actually once dated someone we know? This is just another reason why you need to get out of your comfort zone and explore many different neighborhoods.
Diversify… and increase your chances of finding someone with zero to little mutual acquaintances. The number of guys there that have a disgusting sense of entitlement and attitude towards dating. Like they are too good or something. But alas, the arrogance and shallow attitude always reveals itself eventually. So just run when you suspect that big-paycheck-big-ego persona thing going on. They act like teenagers.
They brag about how much they can drink. They troll bars every weekend with that tired quantity over quality mentality when it comes to women. Yep, we definitely have adult frat boys here. I never had issues because I could spot them from a mile away. But sometimes, in their work attire, they could come off as something different so I see why women have a problem here.
But ladies, listen and observe… you know if a guy is looking for a hookup and not wifey. There are good guys out there. But you know what? San Francisco truly has some amazing men. But you gotta deepen your lifestyle, in where you go and who you hang out with. Think variety variety variety … and keep your heart and eyes open. What we gotta do, is stop giving attention to the dum-dums.
You know, the man-boys. How do we do it? Deep down, we know it! How often do you wish you would have listened to that gut feeling?
The good guys out there in SF. These are men who will offer MORE than something superficial. Men who are more in tune and want to treat women right. Their priorities are straight. And they follow through. And they too deserve a really, really great woman. They see us as having a deep affinity for culture and rich experiences and they really like that about us.
Class over ass, baby!
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Okay, sure… it can be very la la land here. And would love to find her! Men who are also starting to get tired of the dating scene. BUT want to experience it with a partner in crime now. Their future lady sidekick. There ARE men on that level here. Most of them are very driven and work their asses off. Even a lot of those adult frat boys we talked about at least work hard. Or just right over the bridge. Everyone here seems to have a cool story. Perhaps why they are here in the first place. Chance of learning about a new topic, idea, or quirk about the city?
Oh and gotta mention: We have a strong presence of men in San Francisco who are deeply creative in ways that can be very romantic. For the women who desires a partner with an appreciation for some of these kinds of things… these dudes all over SF! Hiking, camping, road-tripping, excursions on the weekend, sailing, surfing!
It all comes down to how we choose to view it. I chose to remain optimistic my entire dating life in San Francisco. And even though I ended up meeting someone from Austin go figure! I really loved my dating life in San Francisco. I felt I chose them well, never lowered my standards, and most importantly- always looked at the silver linings. So just for ourselves… I hope we choose to be happy in the meantime.
We appreciate the living shit out of you. And come talk to us… lol.
Just a tip- not enough guys approach women anymore! Stay positive ladies… hope is not lost when it comes to dating in San Francisco! Want to discuss more? Add me on Instagram at TheVioletFog. Okay but where do you find the something guys that are awesome and want to settle down and get married?
Perhaps that should be a post in and of itself..